Nearly four in ten American women of prime working age want to leave the country for good, according to recent polling. What was once a fringe notion has become a mainstream conversation, driven by a potent mix of political turbulence, safety concerns, and exhaustion with American life itself.
The shift is real and measurable. Gallup found that 40% of women aged 15 to 44 would move abroad permanently if given the chance, a staggering fourfold increase from 2014 levels. By contrast, only 19% of young men expressed similar desires, producing what the polling firm called the widest recorded gender gap of any country it has surveyed. The data captures a moment when leaving America stopped being a fantasy and started looking like a rational exit strategy.
The numbers are reflected in tangible movement. Relocation firms have reported surging inquiries from Americans across Europe and Latin America. Irish passport applications from the US hit a decade high in the first two months of last year. France saw a spike in long-stay visa requests. In March, the number of Americans granted British citizenship reached its highest point since records began in 2004.
One woman at the center of this shift is Jen Barnett, who founded Expatsi to help Americans navigate moving abroad. She launched the website just days before the Supreme Court overturned Roe v. Wade in 2022. The timing proved prophetic. Traffic spiked as the ruling's implications for American women rippled across the country, and Barnett knew she was onto something. Her company has since helped thousands of people, with women making up roughly two-thirds of her clientele. As Barnett put it, without young women, the business would not exist.
What drives them out? Emily Burt, 32, moved to Ecuador with her family earlier this year after her oldest child started kindergarten in Texas. The daily reality of active shooter drills pushed her over the edge. "It was fairly often that we were getting threats, but then they were unfounded. But it doesn't even matter if they were real or not," she said. "That anxiety is still there." Gun violence, compounded by the stress of balancing work and childcare, became intolerable. "It has become harder and harder and more dangerous to even exist as a woman in the US," she said.
For others, the political climate proved decisive. Jenelle Jones, 39, left Tennessee last year for Albania and other European destinations after spending a year traveling in a camper van. She framed the decision carefully. "Everybody's like, 'It's because of Trump, right?' It's yes and no," she said. "The US has always had inherent racism and classism, propaganda, all this stuff that's built into it. But it's never been so in-your-face before."
The visible toxicity of American politics accelerated timelines. Courtney Schuyler, 43, and her wife moved from Tampa Bay to Madrid last year rather than waiting until retirement as they had originally planned. As a member of a marginalized community, Schuyler described a constant background stress. "Walking around the United States when you know you might not be as protected or you might be judged a little bit more harshly or openly than years before, there's always a level of stress on your shoulders," she said. Moving felt like finally breathing again, though the decision came with the weight of leaving loved ones behind.
Since Trump's reelection in November 2024, the motivation has shifted noticeably. Barnett reported that before that election, most people cited adventure, personal growth, or lower costs of living as reasons to relocate. "Since Donald Trump was re-elected in November 2024, the number one reason is politics," she said. November 6th was the biggest day her company had ever experienced. "Our lives just changed dramatically overnight."
A booming ecosystem has emerged to facilitate this exodus. She Hit Refresh serves women over 30 seeking to move abroad. Blaxit Global caters to Black Americans. GTFO tours attracts Trump critics. The infrastructure of departure has become a real industry.
The reality abroad, however, is not without friction. Alexandra Blydenburgh, 27, has lived in various European countries for over four years. The romantic vision of expatriate life collides with stubborn practicalities: visa complexity, lower salaries than the US, language barriers, and distance from family and friends. "Being American abroad, it's an endless cycle of trying to find ways to get a visa," she said. Yet for many, these trade-offs feel acceptable. Blydenburgh doubts the US will address its core dysfunctions in her lifetime. "In my lifetime I don't see that the US could ever become a country where there's free healthcare and this emphasis on work-life balance and six weeks of paid vacation."
Whether this trend will persist depends largely on the American political climate. Barnett sees little sign of reversal. The moment feels durable, and demand for her services shows no signs of cooling.
Author James Rodriguez: "This is the most tangible vote of no confidence American women have ever cast against their own country, and it's hitting the relocation industry like a gold rush."
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