Mothers Rising: How Caregivers Became the Backbone of America's Resistance Movements

Mothers Rising: How Caregivers Became the Backbone of America's Resistance Movements

In Minneapolis, Sarah began documenting immigration enforcement operations across the Twin Cities, tracking what she witnessed as violations of constitutional rights. Nearby, Linsey Rippy stationed herself at a church each day, assembling boxes of food for families afraid to leave home during what the Trump administration called Operation Metro Surge. What emerged was not a formal hierarchy but a practical revolution built on carpools, group chats, and the unglamorous work of keeping communities intact.

The movement gained national attention when five-year-old Liam Ramos appeared in a photograph after being detained with his father at the Dilley immigration processing center in Texas. Rachel Accurso, known as Ms. Rachel from her popular children's television show, launched a campaign across social media and broadcast networks to end the detention of minors. She spoke of a video call with Deiver, a nine-year-old spelling bee champion also held at Dilley who longed to compete in his state competition. "I see every child like I see my children," Accurso said. "It breaks me."

Anita Patel, a pediatrician and mother in Washington DC, partnered with two other physician-mothers to write letters to administration officials on behalf of thousands of medical professionals. They found power in translating what detention meant medically: a two-month-old baby in custody, a child constipated for ten days. "I would have never done any of this if I hadn't been a fucking angry mother," Patel said.

These women joined a long tradition. Decades of mothers have organized around gun violence, immigration, police brutality, climate change, abortion access, and a system that makes parenthood in America exhausting and expensive. They meet in living rooms and coordinate through text chains. They knock on doors before elections. Some now hold political office themselves.

Research supports what activists have long observed. Harvard researchers Erica Chenoweth and Zoe Marks analyzed mass resistance campaigns worldwide and found women's participation on the frontlines "highly correlated" with success, nonviolence, and movement toward egalitarian democracy. As they wrote in 2022: "In other words, fully free, politically active women are a threat to authoritarian and authoritarian-leaning leaders, and so those leaders have a strategic reason to be sexist."

Motherhood itself has become politicizing. The United States has no national paid family leave, inadequate healthcare access, skyrocketing childcare costs with long waitlists, and maternal mortality rates higher than other developed nations, with Black women facing disproportionate risk. Women encounter these realities viscerally. "By the time you realize just how terrible our policies are, you're usually trying to survive motherhood," said Liuba Grechen Shirley, founder of Vote Mama, an organization focused on electing mothers to office.

Shannon Watts launched Moms Demand Action following gun violence. She and Katie Paris co-founded Red Wine and Blue, a group with 800 local chapters and 650,000 members aimed at engaging suburban women and building electoral power. The name itself was deliberate. Paris had watched women organize in living rooms across Ohio and found existing groups too formal, too colorless. "Most of the names of these things all sound like 'American women for America of America,' and you can't tell the difference between them," she said. "They don't sound like much fun."

The numbers reveal a representation gap. Mothers of children under 18 comprise 18 percent of the US population but only just over 7 percent of Congress, compared to fathers who make up 23 percent of Congress and 15 percent of the population. Moms Demand Action has helped launch political runs, including Virginia governor Abigail Spanberger and Annie Andrews, a pediatrician challenging Lindsey Graham in South Carolina.

Jody Barnwell Smith, a Tennessee nurse, found her work at the bedside insufficient after the shooting at Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School killed 17 people. She joined Moms Demand Action, then began recruiting candidates to challenge Republican incumbents in her rural county. In the last election cycle, all four people running for state legislature in Williamson County were mothers. "We're the busiest, but we're also the most effective," Smith said.

Policy shifts follow when mothers hold office. Grechen Shirley ran for Congress in 2018 as an angry mother of young children and petitioned the Federal Election Commission to allow campaign funds for childcare costs. The commission approved. Vote Mama has since pushed states to pass similar laws, and half of all states now permit this use of campaign funds. The organization has also advocated for states to allow campaign funds for security, a necessity reflecting increased threats against women and people of color seeking office.

The backlash has been real. Accurso faces threats and calls for investigations from pro-Israel groups over her advocacy for Palestinian children. She has reframed her work, focusing on those experiencing injustice rather than critics. "I continue to speak out because the kids are counting on us," she said.

Some mothers downplay the framing. Linsey Rippy, who worked in the streets of Minneapolis, was direct about the moment: "We should have been listening to Black women all along. Black women have been doing the work and they've been walking the walk and talking the talk. So it's our turn." Media outlets, particularly conservative commentators, expressed surprise at white suburban mothers organizing, calling them "wine moms" and "self-important white women." Yet the organizing itself continued, networks expanding, recruitment accelerating, policies shifting at state and local levels.

Author James Rodriguez: "Mothers in politics sounds like a punchline until you realize they're the only ones actually getting things done."

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